just treat it like a business deal or something this place is going to look down on submissives no matter what but as dominants we don't have to make it be that way with or without a contract my contract is more about protecting and providing for my submissive not telling him what he can and can't do i'm not saying there's any foolproof way of not having there be a power imbalance because this place will do that one way or another at times but you, as a dominant, don't have to go along with it in your personal and private life
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winterfish
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:44 am (UTC)this place is going to look down on submissives no matter what
but as dominants we don't have to make it be that way
with or without a contract
my contract is more about protecting and providing for my submissive
not telling him what he can and can't do
i'm not saying there's any foolproof way of not having there be a power imbalance
because this place will do that one way or another at times
but you, as a dominant, don't have to go along with it in your personal and private life