i know it does but you can help someone with being their dominant that's how i look at it at least and that's how i have mine i don't sleep with them or boss them around or anything i do what i can to give them a better life here much as one can have
just treat it like a business deal or something this place is going to look down on submissives no matter what but as dominants we don't have to make it be that way with or without a contract my contract is more about protecting and providing for my submissive not telling him what he can and can't do i'm not saying there's any foolproof way of not having there be a power imbalance because this place will do that one way or another at times but you, as a dominant, don't have to go along with it in your personal and private life
That makes sense. I've always been looking for a partnership, not a sub. But I feel like I'm expected to do what I can to keep that person safe. And I don't exactly do a spectacular job of keeping myself safe to take someone else on.
i mean my team isn't here? probably a good thing even if i kind of miss them too but like it's up to you guys i mean i'd never just like shoehorn my way into your family and team i was just saying you know?
You don't have to earn anything. You're equals. Although you seem to have your shit together more than the rest of us. Don't worry, I won't hold it against you.
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Date: 2022-01-03 05:43 am (UTC)Sometimes I don't know where to start.
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Date: 2022-01-03 06:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-01-03 06:34 am (UTC)Just feels wrong, you know?
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Date: 2022-01-03 06:45 am (UTC)but you can help someone with being their dominant
that's how i look at it at least
and that's how i have mine
i don't sleep with them or boss them around or anything
i do what i can to give them a better life here
much as one can have
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Date: 2022-01-03 07:09 am (UTC)They could force us to boss them around, or sleep with them, or do anything they want.
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Date: 2022-01-04 01:34 am (UTC)even with people we're not contracted with
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:27 am (UTC)But it feels different with a contract - the power imbalance, for starters.
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:30 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-01-16 04:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-01-16 04:44 am (UTC)this place is going to look down on submissives no matter what
but as dominants we don't have to make it be that way
with or without a contract
my contract is more about protecting and providing for my submissive
not telling him what he can and can't do
i'm not saying there's any foolproof way of not having there be a power imbalance
because this place will do that one way or another at times
but you, as a dominant, don't have to go along with it in your personal and private life
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:47 am (UTC)And I don't exactly do a spectacular job of keeping myself safe to take someone else on.
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:50 am (UTC)it can be a time
especially if they get in trouble
cause it falls on you sometimes
but it's not impossible
only if you make it be
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:52 am (UTC)Do they punish them?
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:53 am (UTC)i haven't tested that to see myself
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Date: 2022-01-16 04:56 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-01-16 04:56 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-01-16 05:01 am (UTC)Yeah. It is.
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:02 am (UTC)maybe the titans here at some point
i am a good boy
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:06 am (UTC)Nice to hear Dick is still recruiting. He does that a lot.
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:09 am (UTC)my team isn't here?
probably a good thing
even if i kind of miss them too
but like
it's up to you guys i mean
i'd never just like shoehorn my way into your family and team
i was just saying you know?
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:14 am (UTC)Fuck, sometimes I even miss Hank.
But that wasn't a criticism. If you want to join us, I support that.
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:15 am (UTC)that's cool
i mean thanks
kind of nice to have like
dick's sister's approval
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:26 am (UTC)But you've never needed it. You're a smart guy, you know that.
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:44 am (UTC)you know?
but i'm glad i have
i think you're pretty cool
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Date: 2022-01-16 05:53 am (UTC)Although you seem to have your shit together more than the rest of us. Don't worry, I won't hold it against you.
I think you're pretty cool too.
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